Childhood TraumasResilience is an unfairly shared ability. We aren't all equal in health and mental strength. If some say they have found derivatives or even the way out of their childhood terrors, others on the other hand remain disarmed even when wrinkles appear on their face.
Childhood traumas act despite our will, despite any logic, despite us, despite. Anger or even rage still too often find expression in favor of a peccadillo that others would treat with humor. Anguish isolates by shame or distress. Sadness chokes the embers that would fan the fire of life. Addiction hangs on to the smallest fragment of individual freedom. Destruction turned on others or oneself gives the feeling of losing one's mind.
It is far, very far in situations that were left uncompleted in childhood that the origin is found. It is a long time that dwelling on memories, no longer holds a response. So then what? Why search so far back? Is it needed? And how?
Guidance is essential to look alternatively, feel more finely, hear what became inaudible to our ears. The shrewd therapist, tiers proven and tested by his experience and his own journey, his subtle listening, his intuitive and perspective approach, but also his discreet and constant warmth guides us to find in ourselves the answer to our questions.
Keywords: Incest, ill-treatment, negligence, abandonment, dysfunctional family circle, precocious mourning, severe disease of a relative or guardian, divorce of parents, etc.